| We have had to deal with this at Halloween, and I am cringing just thinking about what Christmas will be like. Alright, I probably should explain.My husband and I do not agree with the stereo-types associated with boy and girl colors, toys, etc. We have never asked for presents for our little one, but we have stated that if people want to buy presents, then we would prefer gender neutral toys rather than pink, frilly ones. First, neither of us likes the color pink. Second, if our little one decides to like pink, frilly things, then we feel that it should be her choice and not something that she is forced into. Third, there are plenty of educational toys and books out there, so everything does not have to be Barbie. Fourth, we feel that she should be exposed to a variety of things that will be fun, educational, and spark her creativity rather than be limited by what other people feel are appropriate activities for a girl.My husband's family, however, refuses to abide by our wishes. They think it is funny to buy her things that we do not approve of, and they even laugh when they say, "Well, I know that you won't like this, but we got it for her anyway." I realize that gifts... |
